Procrastination is not laziness or a character flaw. It is a protective mechanism of the brain that kicks in when a task seems too big, boring, or scary. Adolescence is the perfect breeding ground for procrastination: hormones, social media, exam pressure, and the first serious decisions that will determine the future. Your phone vibrates every 30 seconds, and your physics homework seems incomprehensible and off-putting.
Most of the advice found on the internet (‘just start with 5 minutes’ or ‘put your phone in another room’) only irritates teenagers. That's because they don't take reality into account: a phone isn't just a gadget, it's an entire social life, music, memes, and a way to distract yourself from anxiety.
Here we have put together five techniques that really work with teenagers. They don't require tremendous willpower or super motivation. They work even if you ‘really don't want to.
Teenagers hate long to-do lists. So the rule is simple: start any task for exactly 2 minutes. Don't say, ‘I'll do all my algebra,’ but rather, ‘I'll open my textbook and solve one line.’
But the point is to turn it into a game. For example, there are special apps, such as Forest. You can set a timer for 25 minutes, and during that time a tree will grow. If you close the app and open something else on your phone, the tree dies. Teenagers really care more about virtual trees than grades. In a week, many of them already have a whole forest, and their geometry homework somehow gets done by itself.
Mark Twain said, ‘Eat a live frog in the morning, and the rest of the day will be wonderful, because it can't get any worse.’ Translation for teenagers: do the most unpleasant task first, but for a reward that you set for yourself in advance.
Not ‘I'll do my English homework and then watch a TV series,’ but specifically: ‘As soon as I send my literature essay, I'll transfer 300 roubles to myself for a game/cosmetics/cinema.’ Money or a desired purchase works better than ‘I'll go for a walk later.’ Because the teenage brain lives in the here and now.
Banning phones is useless — it will cause rebellion. Instead, make them your ally.
Teenagers give up on the classic Pomodoro (25/5) on the third day — it's too petty and artificial. Another rhythm works: 90 minutes of focused work + 20 minutes of complete detachment (you can even check the news on social media without feeling guilty).
Why 90 minutes? That's how long one cycle of the ultradian rhythm (the natural cycle of concentration) lasts. After 90 minutes, teenagers really do burn out, they're not just being ‘lazy’. But after such a block, they get more done than in three hours of ‘25-minute torture’.
Teenagers are very afraid of looking foolish in front of their peers. Let's use this to our advantage.
Create a section called ‘Today's Deadlines’ in your chat with friends. Every evening, we post what needs to be done tomorrow. Example: ‘By 6 p.m., I will post my biology assignment for chapters 5-7 here.’ The fear of not keeping one's word in front of peers works better than any parental control.
And here's a bonus that will help you track your effectiveness on a daily basis.
Print it out or save it in your notes and tick it off every day.
If at least 4 out of 7 points are completed, the day counts. After 21 days, procrastination will cease to be a major problem. Perhaps not everyone will become straight-A students (that wasn't the goal), but they will definitely stop hating themselves for ‘putting everything off again.’
The main thing is to start with something, choose any technique, even if it's just the black and white screen technique. You will be able to celebrate your first results in 3-4 days. Good luck!