“He’s simply afraid of making a mistake. Give him time - you’ll see how he opens up,” says Mr. Charles at the very first meeting with the parents.

In strong private schools, conversations like this are not the exception - they are part of the culture. Here, a child is not measured against an abstract standard. Instead, educators try to understand how the child thinks, what motivates them, the pace at which they feel comfortable learning, and where they need support.

That is why more and more families are considering private education not as a status-driven alternative, but as an environment where a child can learn without fear, with curiosity, and with a sense of self-worth.

At the same time, this choice naturally raises questions. Does a private school really offer more? What exactly are parents paying for? And are there any downsides to this format?

In this article, we take an honest look at the advantages and disadvantages of private schools, explain who actually studies in them, and share examples from the experience of CIS International School, as well as other international schools.

Advantages of private schools

Individualised approach to learning. One of the key arguments in favour of private education is personalised learning. Small class sizes allow teachers to see not only the final result, but the learning process itself - how a child reasons, where they hesitate, what comes easily, and what requires additional support.

In international schools, including CIS, a number of proven approaches are used:

∙ ESL (English as a Second Language) support, organised in small groups. Importantly, ESL is not a label or a “weak group”, but temporary support designed to maintain confidence and motivation. As a result, students continue progressing academically instead of getting stuck because of language barriers.

∙ Conscious subject choice at IGCSE or A Level. In the upper grades at CIS, students do not study everything at once. Instead, they build an individual academic pathway, selecting 3-4 subjects that genuinely match their interests, strengths, and future plans. This approach reduces overload, increases engagement, and prioritises depth over superficial coverage.

∙ Mentorship and academic guidance. Students and parents receive regular feedback on progress, areas for growth, and necessary adjustments to the learning plan. This is especially important during transitions between educational stages. The school does not leave the child alone with key decisions, but supports them in making informed choices.

High academic standards. Private schools focus not on rote memorisation, but on understanding, logic, critical thinking, and the ability to apply knowledge in practice. Learning is built on a combination of:

∙ academic depth;

∙ development of critical thinking;

• project-based and research work.

Development of creative and athletic skills. Another major advantage is the variety of opportunities beyond core academics. At CIS, as well as in other international schools, extracurricular activities are an integral part of the educational process. Music, theatre, sports, debate, technology, and creative projects help children:

∙ discover their strengths;

∙ learn teamwork;

∙ try themselves in different roles.

This approach broadens horizons and builds self-confidence.

Modern infrastructure and resources. Many private schools invest heavily in their learning environment - academic spaces, equipment, safety, and comfort. Modern classrooms, sports and assembly halls, libraries, technology labs, and well-thought-out nutrition all create conditions that make it easier for children to focus on learning and development.

At CIS campuses, the environment is designed as a unified space for study, communication, and rest - without a sense of routine or obligation.

A safe and supportive environment. For many families, atmosphere is the deciding factor:

∙ fewer students mean more attention;

∙ clear rules and shared values;

∙ a culture of respectful communication;

∙  regular and transparent communication with parents.

At CIS, special attention is given to emotional wellbeing: children know they will be heard, and parents know they are not left alone with school-related questions.

Disadvantages of private schools

High tuition fees. This is the most obvious and frequently discussed drawback. Private education is an investment that not every family can afford.

It is important to assess not only the cost, but the value - what opportunities, level of care, and educational approach a particular school actually offers.

Student selection. Many private schools use interviews or assessments as part of the admissions process. This can cause anxiety for parents, but in strong schools the goal is not to exclude, but to understand how the school and the child can work together most effectively. In international practice, selection is usually a tool for a successful start, not a barrier.

Distance from home. Private schools are often located outside residential areas. For some families this is inconvenient; for others, it is a conscious choice in favour of a calmer, safer, and more focused environment. For example, the CIS Gorki campus is often chosen by families who value ecology and a peaceful academic setting.

Limited social circle - myth or reality? A common stereotype is that private schools offer less socialisation. In practice, the opposite is often true: with fewer students, relationships tend to be more meaningful and conscious, while an international environment adds cultural diversity and different perspectives.

Who studies in private schools

Private schools are most often chosen by families who:

∙ value an individual approach;

∙ seek a stable and safe educational environment;

∙ plan a long-term academic pathway;

∙ want their child to learn without constant stress and pressure.

How to choose a private school.

Step 1. Study the educational programme.

It is important to understand not only the list of subjects, but the school’s philosophy.

Step 2. Visit in person.

Atmosphere, students, and teachers cannot be fully assessed through a website.

Step 3. Talk to the team.

Open dialogue with educators and administration is a sign of a mature and confident school.

Step 4. Explore other families’ experiences.

Reviews, interviews, and real stories on social media or in school magazines help you see the school without illusions.

Conclusion

A private school is not a universal solution and not a guarantee of success. But when chosen thoughtfully, it can become an environment where a child learns to think, ask questions, take responsibility, and believe in themselves.

If how your child feels and develops truly matters to you, a private school may be a strong and well-justified step.

The next step is a personal visit - it is often this meeting that puts everything into perspective. Leave a request, and we will be happy to arrange a convenient time for you.