We wouldn’t get very far without trust!
Picture how often we have to trust people in our everyday lives: we trust people to stop when we cross the road, we trust the doctor to prescribe us the right medicine, we trust our close friends to keep our worries private, and pilots to fly us safely to our destination – basically, we need trust in almost everything we do, and people need us to trust them.
Trust is a scary concept for children; they are often unsure of their own judgement and know they can’t always trust themselves to get it right: “I meant to do the homework, but I got distracted”, “I meant to ignore her, but she said a mean word”. If they can’t trust themselves then how can they possibly trust anyone else?
Psychologists tell us we are hard-wired to trust our parents; it is an essential part of survival. We then generalize out this trust to others and learn who we can trust by trial and error.
Learning whom to trust takes time and experience. Children haven’t yet had time and lack any real experience; therefore, they find it incredibly difficult to know whom to trust. As parents and teachers, do we sit idly by and watch your son or daughter stumble on? Of course not! We can help prepare them to build trust, watch and learn. When they tell you about how someone told stories about one of their friends, you can ask: “What does this tell us about the person telling the stories?”, and “How do you think you would feel if one of your friends did that to you? “ This way we can help them to make the right choices, themselves.
Trust, once lost, is almost impossible to get back. Children need to learn this lesson quickly, or they are bound to suffer, themselves. A loss of trust is much like gaining a reputation for dishonesty, the reputation sticks. So, let’s teach them – earn the trust of others, be wise enough not to lose that trust, and finally be careful who you trust with what.
At the heart of any trusting relationship is ‘empathy’ - an understanding of what it is like to be in the other person’s situation, and ‘integrity’ - a belief that we are the kind of person who will do what is right. When we get it right, we are trustworthy, and everyone wins.
Mr Michael Leach, Headteacher
Dear friends! We invite you to the Open Days at CIS International School campuses.
CIS Summer Camp is a very interesting and exciting summer filled with adventures. Our virtual trip around the world with CIS will let our students experience first-hand the culture, national cuisine, music and sport of England, Russia, Spain, China, Ireland and other countries.
It will take place on the 15th of February in Saint-Petersburg campus, with registration will open at 10:30 AM and the first match will at 11:00 AM.
Today we open the online-registration for CIS Martial Arts Tournament 2020!
Hurry up to join our family!
On the 4th of February (for Secondary) and 6th of February (for Primary) Skolkovo campus will host the greatest arts and sports contest!
Dear friends, We have now started the enrolment process for Year 1 for the academic year 2020-2021 in our Moscow Campus, located in the north of the capital.
Check mate! We would like to invite you to Gorki campus to take part in our traditional Сambridge Chess Tournament 2020.