We wouldn’t get very far without trust!
Picture how often we have to trust people in our everyday lives: we trust people to stop when we cross the road, we trust the doctor to prescribe us the right medicine, we trust our close friends to keep our worries private, and pilots to fly us safely to our destination – basically, we need trust in almost everything we do, and people need us to trust them.
Trust is a scary concept for children; they are often unsure of their own judgement and know they can’t always trust themselves to get it right: “I meant to do the homework, but I got distracted”, “I meant to ignore her, but she said a mean word”. If they can’t trust themselves then how can they possibly trust anyone else?
Psychologists tell us we are hard-wired to trust our parents; it is an essential part of survival. We then generalize out this trust to others and learn who we can trust by trial and error.
Learning whom to trust takes time and experience. Children haven’t yet had time and lack any real experience; therefore, they find it incredibly difficult to know whom to trust. As parents and teachers, do we sit idly by and watch your son or daughter stumble on? Of course not! We can help prepare them to build trust, watch and learn. When they tell you about how someone told stories about one of their friends, you can ask: “What does this tell us about the person telling the stories?”, and “How do you think you would feel if one of your friends did that to you? “ This way we can help them to make the right choices, themselves.
Trust, once lost, is almost impossible to get back. Children need to learn this lesson quickly, or they are bound to suffer, themselves. A loss of trust is much like gaining a reputation for dishonesty, the reputation sticks. So, let’s teach them – earn the trust of others, be wise enough not to lose that trust, and finally be careful who you trust with what.
At the heart of any trusting relationship is ‘empathy’ - an understanding of what it is like to be in the other person’s situation, and ‘integrity’ - a belief that we are the kind of person who will do what is right. When we get it right, we are trustworthy, and everyone wins.
Mr Michael Leach, Headteacher
Dear friends! We are pleased to invite you to online presentations with the Management teams of CIS International School!
We are glad to invite you to an online seminar which will be held on 28th April on the Zoom platform.
Dear friends! This week CIS held an online seminar "Safe Behavior in Social Networks" for students and parents of our campuses.
We want to help take care of our students. We are glad to invite you to an online seminar "Safe Behavior in Social Networks" for children and parents of CIS campuses, which will be held on the Zoom platform.
Distance learning and the work of the school during quarantine.
Dear parents, We have today been informed by the Ministry of Education that all schools must close for from Monday 16th March 2020.
Dear CIS community, We recognize that the volume of messages from local government authorities and the school has been quite high in recent weeks. We appreciate your ongoing engagement and attention to all school communications in support of the health and wellbeing of those in our community.
Dear friends! We invite you to the Open Days at CIS International School campuses.